This article is dedicated to all virtual romantics looking for love on the Internet: let’s see the 3 tips for finding a partner online.
Understand what you really want
One of the main things to understand before starting the search for a partner is to understand if you really want to fall in love and find love or if, rather, you are looking for a story based solely on sex . It is useless to deceive yourself and others in the first place: if you are set on the “sex” mode it will be difficult for you to get to know a potential partner going beyond the aesthetic aspect. In this case, it is useless to deceive ourselves and deceive ourselves and the advice is to make things clear right away and to play with your cards exposed .
Don’t be ashamed to say that you are looking for sex. It is worse to deceive a person into believing that they can fall in love just to go to bed.
Be honest with yourself and the potential suitor and you will see that you will not regret it. You will not look like monsters in the eyes of others if you admit with the utmost transparency that you are only looking for a casual relationship or an extramarital affair. There is nothing wrong with that, just be clear.
Select the appropriate social network or website
Each dating site works differently and targets a specific segment, so it’s important to choose correctly where to start looking. For this, the ideal is to create a new profile, or two at the most, as you will get better results by focusing all the attention on a specific site, instead of managing many different profiles at the same time which could only create confusion and inability to manage them all.
But how do you choose the best dating site? To do this, you need to ask yourself what you are really looking for so that you can find a partner according to your expectations. In other words, the needs of a 20-year-old girl studying at university are not the same as those of a 40-year-old man, single and looking for something stable. For all of this, choosing which dating site to create an account on has a lot to do with the success or failure of our love experiences.
Also remember that you are looking for a partner and not a psychologist so it will not make sense to burden the discussion by telling past stories and feeling sorry for yourself. You will only create embarrassment and make the interlocutor uncomfortable: we all have problems but there is no need to talk about them immediately with a complete stranger.
Some sites or apps also target specific categories of people and are distinguished based on research interests. Do not go blind but try to identify your “target” like this one as well as in every area of life.
Create and update your profile
Changing the profile is a key moment in these situations as it can often help reduce or broaden the range of potential suitors. We strongly recommend that you take the time to think about what you really want to say about yourself and how you want to present yourself. It is advisable to fill in all the editable boxes of the profile and focus on what distinguishes us the most (passions, interests and life goals) but without going into the specific generalities that could be boring and always with a differentiating touch. On the other hand, if you are looking for someone with similar tastes and interests, don’t be afraid to open up and share stories and experiences.
At the same time, originality is fundamental: already from the presentation you understand what type you are and making yourself seen brilliant, out of the ordinary and likeable can facilitate everything. Always without forcing that can lead you to obtain the opposite effect. Anyone who makes forced jokes to be necessarily nice runs the risk of being cloying and driving away the potential “prey”.
